Julia wakes up one day to find that her father, a renowned
Wall-Street lawyer, has disappeared. Just like that. Rigorous detective traces lead her father’s
journey until Bangkok, and then there’s nothing. After a few years of grappling
with this mystery, Julia comes across an old unsent letter that her father had
penned to a woman in Kalaw, Burma, before marrying her mother. Hanging onto the
few details of the letter, Julia finds herself in Kalaw, eager to find answers.
In the little mountain-village of Kalaw, she learns about her father’s deepest
secrets. Her father’s story awes and comforts her, helping her make peace and
gain some insight into the Eastern philosophies of life.
It is the notion of most spiritualists that the intellect is
far more superior to the senses. Debates rage in the scientific and spiritual
community over which is better. The most common answer is – both. One leads and
informs the other. The intellect cannot develop without the senses, and the
senses are empty without a processor. Although the bulk of the book is about a
poignant, tender, idealistic romance, the aspect that elevated the book was the
portrayal of the development of some of our basic senses to reach deep within
one’s heart and soul. A nuanced sensory skill does enhance the intellect or
one’s intuition – provided, the body and mind are in-sync. This insight gives
one the clarity to understand the world, and everything and everybody on it, a
little better.
The story infuses basic Buddhist principles, most of which
are widely accepted by most schools of thought. Seeing is not always believing.
It is true that our senses, especially the sense of sight, often muddles our
deeper visions. The superficial is more visible than the valuable truths that
lie coiled inside layers of the superficial. It takes a special kind of
training to tune the senses, to collaborate with all the other senses, to
sensitize our probes, to penetrate through all the layers and uncover the
essence of everything. Julia’s father learns to see right through to the
essence. He uses his senses in the most optimal manner to enlighten his mind
and travel to a different place. He shows that the art of intuitive perception
can be honed with our army of limited senses.
But this book is not overtly philosophical. The book’s
essence is a beautiful love story. It speaks of a mystical, magical,
transcendent love that doesn’t drain or inflict misery, despite any number of
pangs and pains. It speaks of a completely unconditional love that only uplifts
and multiplies true happiness. Is it possible for such unearthly love to exist
between two people? Is it possible that the love that we dig deep within
ourselves to enlighten and brighten our inner-selves, can be found through
another individual? Could another individual truly complete us – down to our
core? The tale says, yes. Once you perceive the essence of love – the true
warmth and happiness that it provides, you don’t need to be bound to your
rudimentary senses to remain happy. The happiness that you gain is permanent
within you, radiating you with energy and good-will. It is a love without strings attached, but
with another kind of deeper, soulful attachment that doesn’t depend on the
senses to be activated. Although it is
hard to achieve such a state in our worldly relationships, the story brought
back my tucked-away idealism to the fore. And I reveled in it, at least
briefly.
The writing is simple and beautiful. It effortlessly
streams with lucidity and insight. It gracefully paints the story and the settings. And
the characters are surely memorable. But (there had to be a but), there are
questions that are left unanswered, and the questions are significant enough to
nag the reader. Why did Julia’s father decide to get married to her mother, is
one such a question. Why did he not return to Burma earlier, if he had the
clarity and courage to differentiate between social mores and the ways of
Nature? Some things don’t add up, especially since the story is set in so much
idealism. It taints Julia’s father in a shroud of tarnished uncertainty and
cowardice, taking away some of the beauty of the story.
Despite the nagging questions, I really liked the book. I
really thought this would receive my highest rating, but a few things didn’t
align themselves in the end.
4 comments:
Too good to be true.
"Could another individual truly complete us – down to our core?" - I believe yes, and this is the only person in the whole world that can lead us to fulfilment. But I've told myself many times that it is stupid to long for this person, or to expect someone to be so to us.
Whether or not we find this person in this birth, I think, is pure destiny. And we had better be strong enough to accept destiny.
That was me talking to myself. This is how the harsh pragmatist in me fights the idealist in me. Sorry I commented this way; I was thinking aloud and didn't realize its not too pleasant to read.
I don't mean to shatter any idealistic thoughts. They very much exist, even within myself.
My heart truly wishes that every single living being on this earth find that true love that completes and liberates him or her to a world beyond the shackles of this material world.
I am far too familiar with this internal debate between idealism and pragmatism, so not to worry at all about your comments!
One thing that I forced myself to remember after this book was to stop projecting my own experiences, thoughts, feelings, and cynicism onto the set of rich possibilities that Life could offer. It's all a matter of random (or destined) patterns coming together. Such idealism is part of the set of randomness that can equally throw as many fairy-tales as tragedies, so I remind myself to not shut such possibilities away :).
Words of wisdom.
Absolutely agree.
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